Karma...

Understand Karma. Understand that you are a soul with a body & not a body with a soul. By sticking in a hurtful relationship, you actually allow & encourage piling of negative karma onto the souls of those who are hurting you. This eventually hampers their growth & journey. Rather than loyalty or sacrifice as the worldly voices would suggest this to be, it actually is a disservice to their soul & your soul.

Ko▫ī bolai rām rām ko▫ī kẖuḏā▫e.

Raamkalee, Fifth Mehl:

Some call Him, 'Raam, Raam', and some call Him, 'Khudaa-i'.
Some serve Him as 'Gusain', others as 'Allah'.
He is the Cause of causes, the Generous Lord.
He showers His Grace and Mercy upon us.
Some bathe at sacred shrines of pilgrimage, and some make the pilgrimage to Mecca.
Some perform devotional worship services, and some bow their heads in prayer.
Some read the Vedas, and some the Koran.
Some wear blue robes, and some wear white.
Some call themselves Muslim, and some call themselves Hindu.
Some yearn for paradise, and others long for heaven.
Says Nanak, one who realizes the Hukam of God's Will,
knows the secrets of his Lord and Master.

Rāmkalī mėhlā 5.

Ko▫ī bolai rām rām ko▫ī kẖuḏā▫e.
Ko▫ī sevai gus▫ī▫ā ko▫ī alāhi.
Kāraṇ karaṇ karīm.
Kirpā ḏẖār rahīm.
Ko▫ī nāvai ṯirath ko▫ī haj jā▫e.
Ko▫ī karai pūjā ko▫ī sir nivā▫e.
Ko▫ī paṛai beḏ ko▫ī kaṯeb.
Ko▫ī odẖai nīl ko▫ī supeḏ.
Ko▫ī kahai ṯurak ko▫ī kahai hinḏū.
Ko▫ī bācẖẖai bẖisaṯ ko▫ī surginḏū.
Kaho Nānak jin hukam pacẖẖāṯā.
Parabẖ sāhib kā ṯin bẖeḏ jāṯā.

रामकली महला ५ ॥

कोई बोलै राम राम कोई खुदाइ ॥
कोई सेवै गुसईआ कोई अलाहि ॥
कारण करण करीम ॥
किरपा धारि रहीम ॥
कोई नावै तीरथि कोई हज जाइ ॥
कोई करै पूजा कोई सिरु निवाइ ॥
कोई पड़ै बेद कोई कतेब ॥
कोई ओढै नील कोई सुपेद ॥
कोई कहै तुरकु कोई कहै हिंदू ॥
कोई बाछै भिसतु कोई सुरगिंदू ॥
कहु नानक जिनि हुकमु पछाता ॥
प्रभ साहिब का तिनि भेदु जाता ॥

ਰਾਮਕਲੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥

ਕੋਈ ਬੋਲੈ ਰਾਮ ਰਾਮ ਕੋਈ ਖੁਦਾਇ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਸੇਵੈ ਗੁਸਈਆ ਕੋਈ ਅਲਾਹਿ ॥
ਕਾਰਣ ਕਰਣ ਕਰੀਮ ॥
ਕਿਰਪਾ ਧਾਰਿ ਰਹੀਮ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਨਾਵੈ ਤੀਰਥਿ ਕੋਈ ਹਜ ਜਾਇ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਕਰੈ ਪੂਜਾ ਕੋਈ ਸਿਰੁ ਨਿਵਾਇ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਪੜੈ ਬੇਦ ਕੋਈ ਕਤੇਬ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਓਢੈ ਨੀਲ ਕੋਈ ਸੁਪੇਦ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਕਹੈ ਤੁਰਕੁ ਕੋਈ ਕਹੈ ਹਿੰਦੂ ॥
ਕੋਈ ਬਾਛੈ ਭਿਸਤੁ ਕੋਈ ਸੁਰਗਿੰਦੂ ॥
ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਜਿਨਿ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਪਛਾਤਾ ॥
ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸਾਹਿਬ ਕਾ ਤਿਨਿ ਭੇਦੁ ਜਾਤਾ ॥

~This Shabad appears on the page 885 of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji~

Ham sar ḏīn ḏa▫i▫āl na ṯum sar ab paṯī▫ār ki▫ā kījai.

There is none as forlorn as I am, and none as Compassionate as You; 
what need is there to test us now?
May my mind surrender to Your Word; 
please, bless Your humble servant with this perfection. 
I am a sacrifice, a sacrifice to the Lord.
For so many incarnations, I have been separated from You, Lord; I dedicate this life to You.
Says Ravi Daas: placing my hopes in You, I live;
It is so long since I have gazed upon the Blessed Vision of Your Darshan.


Ham sar ḏīn ḏa▫i▫āl na ṯum sar ab paṯī▫ār ki▫ā kījai.
Bacẖnī ṯor mor man mānai jan ka▫o pūran ḏījai. ||1||
Ha▫o bal bal jā▫o rama▫ī▫ā kārne.
Kāran kavan abol. Rahā▫o. O Lord, why are You silent? ||Pause||
Bahuṯ janam bicẖẖure the māḏẖa▫o ih janam ṯumĥāre lekẖe.
Kahi Raviḏās ās lag jīva▫o cẖir bẖa▫i▫o ḏarsan ḏekẖe. ||2||1||


हम सरि दीनु दइआलु न तुम सरि अब पतीआरु किआ कीजै ॥
बचनी तोर मोर मनु मानै जन कउ पूरनु दीजै ॥१॥
हउ बलि बलि जाउ रमईआ कारने ॥
कारन कवन अबोल ॥ रहाउ ॥
बहुत जनम बिछुरे थे माधउ इहु जनमु तुम्हारे लेखे ॥
कहि रविदास आस लगि जीवउ चिर भइओ दरसनु देखे ॥२॥१॥


ਹਮ ਸਰਿ ਦੀਨੁ ਦਇਆਲੁ ਨ ਤੁਮ ਸਰਿ ਅਬ ਪਤੀਆਰੁ ਕਿਆ ਕੀਜੈ ॥
ਬਚਨੀ ਤੋਰ ਮੋਰ ਮਨੁ ਮਾਨੈ ਜਨ ਕਉ ਪੂਰਨੁ ਦੀਜੈ ॥੧॥
ਹਉ ਬਲਿ ਬਲਿ ਜਾਉ ਰਮਈਆ ਕਾਰਨੇ ॥
ਕਾਰਨ ਕਵਨ ਅਬੋਲ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
ਬਹੁਤ ਜਨਮ ਬਿਛੁਰੇ ਥੇ ਮਾਧਉ ਇਹੁ ਜਨਮੁ ਤੁਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਾਰੇ ਲੇਖੇ ॥
ਕਹਿ ਰਵਿਦਾਸ ਆਸ ਲਗਿ ਜੀਵਉ ਚਿਰ ਭਇਓ ਦਰਸਨੁ ਦੇਖੇ ॥੨॥੧॥


~This Shabad appears on the page number 694 of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji~