Saturday, December 31, 2011

2012...

1] The path begins with a crossroads. There you can stop and think what direction to follow. But don't spend too much time thinking or you'll never leave the spot. Once you have taken the first step, forget the crossroads forever or you will always torture yourself with the useless question: "did I take the right path?"

2] The path doesn't last for ever. It is a blessing to travel the path for some time, but one day it will come to an end, so always be prepared to leave it at any moment. Don't get too used to anything. Neither to the hours of euphoria, nor to the endless days when everything seems so difficult and progress is so slow. Don't forget that sooner or later an angel will appear and your journey will reach an end.

3] Honor your path. It was your choice, your decision, and just as you respect the ground you step on, that ground will respect your feet. Always do what is best to conserve and keep your path and it will do the same for you.

4] Be well equipped. Carry a small rake, a spade, a penknife. Understand that penknives are no use for dry leaves, and rakes are useless for herbs that are deep-rooted. Know also what tool to use at each moment.

5] The path goes forward and backward. At times you have to go back because something was lost, or else a message to be delivered was forgotten in your pocket. A well tended path enables you to go back without any great problems.

6] Take care of the path before you take care of what is around you. Don't be distracted by the dry leaves at the edges or by the way that others are looking after their paths. Use your energy to tend and conserve the ground that accepts your steps.

7] Be patient. Sometimes the same tasks have to be repeated, like tearing up weeds or closing holes that appear after unexpected rain. Don't let that annoy you – that is part of the journey.

8] Paths cross. People can tell what the weather is like. Listen to advice, and make your own decisions. You alone are responsible for the path that was entrusted to you.

9] Nature follows its own rules. In this way, you have to be prepared for sudden changes in the fall, slippery ice in winter, the temptations of flowers in spring, thirst and showers in the summer. Make the most of each of these seasons, and don't complain about their characteristics.

10] Make your path a mirror of yourself. By no means let yourself be influenced by the way that others care for their paths. You have your soul to listen to, and the birds to tell what your soul is saying. Let your stories be beautiful and pleasant to everything around you. Above all, let the stories that your soul tells during the journey be echoed at each and every second of the path.

11] Love your path. And may the Lord guide you and help you every single day in 2012.

http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2011/12/31/manual-for-conserving-paths/

~Paulo Coelho~

Thursday, December 22, 2011

In God, I trust...

Awakening in itself is nirvana... Courage in itself is resuscitation... Faith in itself is salvation...

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Look within... That's where all the answers are...

Although things sometimes seem askew, yet I have my faith intact, am aware that the Universe is ultimately fair and therefore I must keep walking with all the courage and conviction that Almighty chooses to give...

Monday, December 19, 2011

Incomplete verse...

toofan se nahin, waqt ki tabaahi hui
yeh mere wujood ki ibaarat...
hashr dekh ke tamashaee bole, ahmaq
khandar ko kehta tha imaarat...

Identifiable sans an identity, an incomplete quest to be whole...
En route journey to meet the maker, destiny took away my soul...
Squander, I may one day, an insane succumbing to fate's might...
Amongst the oblivious onlookers with an opinionated hindsight...

Friday, December 16, 2011

Life's alike a ferris wheel... Bound to go up 'n down several times over before the ride ends...

In a deep desire to discover the inner core and how much of it is mine,
Am painfully scrapping my soul in slow trance, one thin layer at a time,
Though been long that I went numb, reason why now, ain't feeling any pain,
No anguish, for I realize, scars will bring me revelations too, in bargain...

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

The tale of two beggars...

Out on a busy street corner on a sunny morning, there sat two beggars.

A constable, in a bid to scare the two away from the street, flashed his cane in the air and accidentally hit the first beggar on his forehead.

Seeing that this destitute was now bleeding and had fainted, the constable in a show of rare kindness bundled him in a rickshaw to the nearest hospital for the doctors to fix up his wound.

A li'l later, writhing in an obvious discomfort, the first beggar regained consciousness and was handed few medicines along with a glass of water by the attending nurse.

The beggar, now with bandages on his forehead, thanked God Almighty for the mercy shown, blessed the constable for his compassion, and blessed the doctor 'n the hospital staff too for providing the medical assistance.

In the meanwhile, after the constable took the injured beggar to the hospital, the unscathed second beggar was back at the street corner.

Seeing a passerby, he pleaded for ten rupees to buy some food. The passerby showed concern but as luck would ensue had only five rupees to spare, walked away after giving that to the beggar.

The second beggar pocketed the five rupees 'n cursed the benefactor for being a miser 'n wished him a misfortune, followed it up by cursing the first beggar for splattering blood around 'n finally cursed the constable too for bringing a bad omen to his business by showing up early in the morning.

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Epilogue: Despite being in much favorable circumstances as compared to the first beggar, the second beggar chose viciousness over kindness.

Fair enough, undoubtedly it's a free world 'n every individual should be at liberty to make their own choices on how they chose to react to situations.

The key words here are "every individual should be at liberty to make their own choices" lest one conveniently misses the greens for the woods.

God bless everyone. Stay put in unending bliss, happiness 'n peace.

Monday, December 12, 2011

Life is an unending battle of survival... Death is merely an event that happens in the end...

hajar ho jaane ki hai khawaish, iss umeed ke sabr mein...
rooh ho jayegi aazaad, dafn ho jaonga jab main qabr mein...

I will, am ready to perish, God allow me to abate...
If that is what is wanted, for the soul to liberate...

I dare to dream... therefore I am alive...

main khaak hoon apne khawabon ki, ek dinn supurd-e-khaak ho jaaonga...
zinda hoon lekin tab talak, jab talak khawab dekhne se nahin katraonga...

Sunday, December 11, 2011

I dream... therefore I am alive...

main khaak hoon apne khawabon ki, ek dinn supurd-e-khaak ho jaaonga...
zinda hoon lekin tab talak, jab talak khawab dekhne se nahin katraonga...

Morrow...

Have outgrown the fears; now sans any fright,
Sure it's dark for now but ain't forever a night,
In time the dawn will break 'n spread the light,
Life resurrects itself; everything will be alright...

Friday, December 09, 2011

Jung ke liye hausla ho, toh lashkar se darrna kya...

intizaar mein aazaar, par bezaar nahin...
hui thi jahan abtar, lekin mismaar nahin...
kuredta rooh ko, main baar baar wahin...

The only conflict I have is raging within... Once the soul wins, everything else is easy...

I want to live 'n die as I were when I was born... Without fear... Without malice...

tamaashai bann jaaye farzi munsif toh bayaan se kya hai haasil...
be-taassub gar hai ahal-e-mehafil toh bayaan se kya hai haasil...

With judgmental people, explaining is futile... With nonjudgmental people, explanations are unneeded...

Friday, December 02, 2011

The Top 5 Regrets...

The Top 5 Regrets...
 

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honor at least some of your dreams along the way.

From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realize, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn't work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship.

Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realize the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier

This is a surprisingly common one.

Many did not realize until the end that happiness is a choice.

They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

http://addicted2success.com/archives/4335

By Bronnie Ware, who's a palliative care worker 'n has worked with a countless number or patients who are sadly seeing their last days on earth.