Is being in a bad marriage and spending a lifetime on working things out better than a divorce? Or is divorce better than bad marriage?
Isn’t is too obvious that bad marriages creates even worse family environment for children as compared to the family environment created by divorced parents. Isn’t it better for the kids to see happy parents rather than fighting parents. Besides, world needs happy individuals and happy marriages, not marriages for the sake of marriages.
Kids are way much smarter than the adults give them credit. They learn more from what they see than what they are told. Unfortunately the only thing kids unconsciously learn seeing their parents sticking in a pretentious relationship is pretentiousness.
Is it really a dream of any parent, to see a child be anything but real, to self and to world?
Even for the couple, isn’t is pointless living a life sans any understanding, sans any passion. The idea is to live and let live, not die and make die. The purpose of life is to feel alive as long as you live, not to be dead until you die. Understand that sacrifice isn’t necessarily a virtue and happiness isn’t a sin.
Dear God, Dear Universe, Bless one and all, that everyone lives their life fully, passionately, and with an intensity of purpose. Amen.
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